tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9953222.post5118416291387622326..comments2023-10-19T08:41:05.278-06:00Comments on Inspired Work of Self-Indulgence: Almost every paragraph begins with an IDuly Inspiredhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14667265361131163774noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9953222.post-12750071262472292382012-07-14T10:03:50.572-06:002012-07-14T10:03:50.572-06:00As much as you may want to, you can not help an ad...As much as you may want to, you can not help an addict get better. He must help his self. This is probably what you already know in your head. It's your heart that wants to fix it, but you can't. Pray for his situation, is really all you can do. Anything more than that, is only enabling him to continue, and consciously, or sub-consciously use your kindness and love as a weakness. This is the hardest advice to take, I don't know that I could even follow my own advice here. <br />with love<br /><br />Shellyshellypaigenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9953222.post-76719160283844077962012-07-04T19:37:25.103-06:002012-07-04T19:37:25.103-06:00surrounding you with love alison, prayers on the t...surrounding you with love alison, prayers on the the way...i know and feel your pain.<br />sandy xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9953222.post-72023947723271489802012-06-28T09:59:43.279-06:002012-06-28T09:59:43.279-06:00Love knows no boundaries. Deep in his heart he is...Love knows no boundaries. Deep in his heart he is so thankful that you are his "safe" place. Stand your ground firmly in whatever path you choose. <br /><br />My thoughts and prayers are with you both.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9953222.post-27928351793481528572012-06-27T11:36:33.459-06:002012-06-27T11:36:33.459-06:00No easy answer, both paths (your mother's and ...No easy answer, both paths (your mother's and your father's) are difficult. I think the solution is to remember he is an adult, making his decisions and therefore, must suffer the consequences. Your instinct tell you this. My advice? Stay as unaware as you can of the consequences. Let him live the life he is building for himself. As he ages and matures, he will come around. And he will wonder how he could have ever done this to himself and to you. Prayers for you...Siouxcitysuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12441128340390635314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9953222.post-72698663168805827512012-06-26T22:24:01.567-06:002012-06-26T22:24:01.567-06:00So sorry this is happening to you. I for one would...So sorry this is happening to you. I for one would think it would be easier to do as your mother did. But you have to chose YOUR path...just keep yourself safe!CreekHiker / HollysFollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14987597104795294851noreply@blogger.com